Making Love > Sex
‘Making love is something serious. I know sometimes ‘making love’ can just be thrown in with sex. Although, when you are making love you will know it. It’s not going to be without any real emotions attached either by one or both parties. It’s mutual. When you are just having sex with someone you tend no to care really to cater to their every need. You are there to personally please each other.
You will be able to feel it and there wouldn’t be a doubt in your mind that what you were, will, or have experience was pure love making. Love making is when you aren’t just having sex anymore or from pure temptation. It is that physical want to be one, the closest as possible, and to emotionally really give all of yourself after letting them into every inch of your life. You are in touch with the next person’s body, mind, and spirit. This happens when you truly fall for this person. Making love is far more than just an sexual attraction but emotional one as well.
When you’re making love there is a lot of touching, rubbing, grabbing, scratching, moaning, and looking into each others eyes. Sometimes there are even biting, licking, and sucking. There are deep long and slow strokes. You’re moving off of their moment and feeling what they’re feeling. Everything is so in tuned.
Here is the thing about sex, sex can sometime feel good but it may also be painful or even become a bad experience. But when you’re making love there is none of that. You guys are having much more than sexual intercourse, and you are connected, and you know what each other wants, what they’re feeling and if there are any anxieties or worries involved.
Sensual to me, with intimacy, is total trust but also no inhibitions and no insecurities. It’s letting yourself feel. ‘